16 dating a 23 year old
Because he may be a great communicator, mature for his age, and relationship minded, but he’s also, y’know, a BABY. Go in with your eyes open and appreciate the experience for what it is — a dalliance with the youthful exuberance of your past. “What do guys in their twenties really expect and/or want when contacting an older woman? That’s what I thought when I was a schmucky 20 something, and so did my friends.I would proceed with caution, if you’re looking for something more than a fling with a young stud.Ultimately the biggest issue between us was that our wants are so different. I want to be in a committed relationship, but am not looking for anything immediately serious. I get contacted by a fair number of guys in their 20’s and most I don’t respond to because I just feel it won’t go anywhere. But I still feel that maybe it’s a mistake…what do I really have in common with this guy? However, if you’re looking for good, clean (and not-so-clean) fun with a young stallion, you can have an amazing time. However, if you’re looking for good, clean (and not-so-clean) fun with a young stallion, you can have an amazing time. I’m here to observe society and report back to you how things USUALLY work out. And when all my friends would make fun of me and say, “Why would you date an older woman when you could date a younger woman? As far as I’m concerned, every woman is better at 28 than at 23, better at 33 than at 28, and so on. You’re at the home buying, 401K saving, family planning phase of life — for MOST 46-year-olds.Recently, however, I was contacted by a guy in his mid-twenties and I was impressed by his profile…he’s mature, intelligent, articulate and attractive. And for every Demi and Ashton (Celebrities, They’re Just Like Us! ”, I’d say, “Why would you date a younger woman when you can date an older woman? Now, there is a flaw in this system – the biological clock — which is much worse at 38 than at 23. Hey, if you still have the juice to hang with kids, go crazy. Put another way, there’s a very good reason that you don’t see many 25 year old men with 45 year old women.Money wasn't really an issue, she had a good job, she could pay her way for things, but I have a great job, so rarely would I let her.
Not like he couldn't find common ground, but the age difference really was apparent among friends closer to my age.I have probably more dates than the average woman and I just can’t seem to find a guy I want to date.I am often told I am beautiful and I look about 10 years younger than I my age. Let me use more words to say it: If you’re looking for a long-term relationship, you’re most likely wasting your time with this kid. If you’re looking for a long-term relationship, you’re most likely wasting your time with this kid.I don't know how ok I am if random people think I'm a teenager. I love the thought that my age is a factor in his attraction to me--in some (probably fucked up way) it made me feel really good to know how good he felt dating someone so much younger than him.It was also pretty hot (at first) being his arm candy.
We've been dating for 3 months and he lives with me at my parents house.